Reverse politness

The other day I was asking some questions on a Linux mailing list.
After living for 30 years in Japan, where politeness is (at least it used to !) an essential feature of society and communication, I tried to be polite, assuming a low attitude for myself, on that list too.

That produced “adverse reactions” in that I was told to speak up clearly and come straight to the point.

This IS without doubt a very difficult communication skill …

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About nyuwa

German acupuncturist living in Japan for 32 years. My ideas about "common sense" may not necessarily be common sense to others.
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